Choose the 2 most important and 1 least
important things you want in a relationship from this list.
(1)love(2)romance(3)sex(4)marriage(5)companionship
In
my mind, 2 most important things are love and marriage, and the least important
thing is sex.
Love is the foundation of a long-term relationship. If you want to keep
your love healthy, you can’t keep without love. As we all known, in
relationships, arguments and conflicts are inevitable. Without love, it is hard
to tie the broken couple up again. Because of love, you can forgive his/her
faults. Because of love, you can stand his/her shortcomings. Because of love,
you can refuse other people’s temptation. Seems love is involved in
relationship, I trust it as the most important thing.
The
next important thing is marriage. Comparing with romance, the best advantage is
giving your partner an official promise and social statement. It is important
to Asia people who think face is very important in their social life. It can
explain when Nadeshiko were refused by ikemen, she want to commit suicide. And
it also can explain she stay alive, for saigo offering her a marriage.
Furthermore, marriage can give you a right, which allows you keeping his or her
company when his or her dying.
The
least important thing is sex. Sex is desire within every animal. As human, we
are not only a kind of animal, but also person. We have emotion, wisdom, and
reason. It makes no sense that treat a desire as most important thing in our
mind. You can satisfy your desire through money or pick up someone for one
night, if you want. But it doesn’t mean that making sex with other people is
right. It is unfaithful and disloyal to your partner. Comparing with other options,
it is least matter in relationship.
Questions:
(1)Do you agree with me love is the most important thing in our relationship?
(2)Which is the most important thing in you relationship?And why?
(3)Can you continue a relationships without love?
(4)Is sex does necessity in relationship?
(5)What are you think about marriage?
You know your own mind well (EQ). How about people who had different rankings from you. Can you explain their points of view too, in a way they would agree is valid (PoV)?
返信削除The ability to do so is a valuable bridging skill.
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